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Why Does He Do That? - Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
by Lundy Bancroft

Don't Panic - Taking Control of Anxiety Attacks
by R. Reid Wilson, Ph.D.

Princess - A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia
by Jean Sasson

Who are you?

This is the fun question that was asked of me at a humanities final. What interests me about it within the context of this website is: Does the abuser/controller know who he/she is? From here on I will use “he” to indicate the abuser/controller because, unfortunately, most abusers are male.
We are not blank slates when [...]

My experience with pastors and domestic violence

After having reviewed the book, Domestic Violence: What Every Pastor Needs to Know, on a previous blog entry, I would like to add my own account of how pastors dealt with me when I tried to get help as a victim of domestic violence.
At the time I was going to two churches. I attended the [...]

Obama and cohorts using Hegelian Dialectic to Change America

It seems to me like Obama and his cohorts are using Diaprax (another word for Hegelian Dialectic) to change the inner machinery of America. If you remember from a previous blog, diaprax is a method of ideologically leading someone where you want them to go using small steps to convince them. If they would know [...]

Domestic Violence: What Every Pastor Needs to Know-Book Review

Among other things, the results of 158 interviews with Catholic and Protestant clergy as well as interviews with victims, batterers and specialists in the domestic violence field are contained in the book. The author, Reverend Al Miles, is astonished at how many pastors are unwilling or do not really know how to deal with domestic [...]

12 Days in a Verbally Abusive Environment

No good tree bears bad fruit,
nor does a bad tree bear good fruit.
Each tree is recognized by its own fruit.
People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briars.
The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart,
and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored [...]

Swine Flu

I am just finishing up a microbiology course and this is some of what our excellent teacher, an M.D., told us about the outbreak of Swine Flu (type A, H1N1) in 1918 and about modern flu viruses. I have added some information that I found as well.
- The pandemic of 1918 killed 20 million [...]

Get a Youtube video onto your computer - and then embed it into a Power Point file

I found this out at the end of 2007 but lost the instructions. I had to redo the procedure or a current Power Point presentation that I am preparing. Since I rewrote the instructions for some fellow students I thought I might paste them in here. It works!
1. First convert all video formats to .wmv [...]

Trophies and Slogans

This post already exists as a page on the main site, but it won’t get registered there by the spiderbots that comb blogs, and some won’t bother to go to the main site to see it, so here it is (a little different to fit the narrower page and without a table).

“Blessed are you when [...]

Scams aimed at Ministries - Letters…

Since I consider scams just as bad as flaming and the like, I’ll include scam letters sent to me - and probably sent to a lot of others as well. If you have a ministry site or something similar, like mine, don’t fall for this kind of junk. Goodness, sending this stuff to someone who [...]

Self-Proclaimed Shepherds

Self-Proclaimed Shepherds
by Friedrich Wilhelm Haack
August 1988
Translated from German to English by Carmen Brill
April 5, 2003

Friedrich Wilhelm Haack
Self-Proclaimed Shepherds
(orig. Hirten im eigenen Auftrag)
Shepherding / Discipling
Bob Weiner’s Maranatha,
&
Kip McKean’s Boston Church of Christ
Dokumentations-Edition 17
der Arbeitsgemeinschaft für Religions- und Weltanschauungsfragen
Translation from German into English by Carmen Brill with permission from ARW www.religio.de/arw. The original is still [...]